He’s Maybe Perhaps Not Gay, He Has Gay Tendencies. You’ve got concerns? He’s got responses! Require advice?

We just had a disagreement and then he said you will find males in the police who will be when you look at the wardrobe and select to do this. It was said by him’s easier when it comes to guys to disguise their sex than females regarding the force. Is he offering me signals? Have always been We being paranoid? – “A Sista Desires To Know”

Dear “A Sista Desires To Know, ”

WOW! Ms. Honey, i will really arrive at north park myself and knock some feeling into the mind. After all actually. You’ve been dating a guy whom lives an additional populous town for days gone by a decade in which he hasn’t expected you to definitely marry him? Really, woman.

I will get back to this 1, so let’s target if he’s giving you signals about their sex if you have got a straight to be paranoid.

Okay, wait a moment. Pause. I’m still bugging. He’s into the Bay you’re and area in hillcrest. A decade of dating with no wedding? WOMAN.

I’ve recollected myself once more. Now, he’s fully mindful of down low gents and ladies because he works closely with them regarding the police. He’s told you about them. He also went as far as to provide you with a reason of why it is easier for males to full cover up their sex than ladies. He’s clearly been discussing the niche with a few of their authorities pals, or feasible certainly one of their down police that is low. That does not make him homosexual. He probably was interested to find out there were undercover gay policemen and he had been using the services of them.

As he visits you and inquires about Hillcrest, the mainly homosexual community, given that does raise a banner.

You and inquires about Hillcrest, the largely gay community, now that does raise a flag when he visits. What exactly is he inquiring about? But, the simple fact which he had for a bracelet using the homosexual rainbow colors and a quick necklace, in which he didn’t understand it represented a person who had been homosexual. We ain’t buying that reason. He’s a police. I know he has knowledge or happens to be taught to observe individuals, habits, and symbols, particularly the colors that represent the homosexual rainbow, in which he is through the Bay area. Naw, that is not traveling by.

But, i want to share one thing you with women. Some guys, in privacy, in the past or any other, have actually taken their “Johnsons” between their feet to see just what it seems like. I’ve seen men get it done playfully into the locker space. Did i do believe these people were homosexual? No, maybe perhaps maybe not at all. It is for gags. I believe some guys have a specific fascination to understand what it can appear to be if it had been not here. Simply like we think ladies fanaticize when they possessed a penis.

But, woman, i really do think he has got tendencies that are gay is homosexual interested.

Nevertheless, woman, i really do think he’s tendencies that are gay is gay inquisitive. Particularly following the reality whenever you questioned him in which he flipped down. Then he wouldn’t get that upset and stop speaking with you if he’s not gay. I do believe you hit a sore spot with him because he might secretly get the gay life fascinating, when I think some males secretly do. We mean think about it, we have been fabulous. We now have enjoyable and then we don’t have any nagging issue expressing ourselves. Does it suggest his fascination makes him homosexual? No. Does which make him suspect? No. He does items that would make one suspect him of being homosexual, but we gather he’s straight.

But, Ms. A-Sista-Wants-To-Know, i’m going returning to the known reality he’s another town and also you’ve been dating a decade. Girl, get yourself a hold and move on. He could be perhaps not likely to marry you. Why should he? He could be everything that is getting wishes away from you with no name or paper. I would personallyn’t be surprised in San Diego if he has another woman in the Bay area when he is not with you. Move ahead, honey. We don’t realize women who hold on to a guy he may, or he will change because you are hopeful for one day, or. WOMAN, Poof! Disappear. – Directly, From Your Gay Companion!